“Can you tell someone’s sexual behavior based on how they appear or interact?”

The Gay Perspective:

No.

It is best to never judge someone at all, let alone judge their sexual prowess or speculate as to their sexual proclivities.

As humans, we have preconceptions as to who people really are just by looking at them. This can’t be further from reality in 99 percent of cases.

Just because you meet a guy that is quiet and seemingly timid, do not allow yourself to believe that he will be the same way in the bedroom; you may just find yourself at the whim of a madman.

Let’s be real, a lot of serial killers and lone gunmen had friends and neighbors that said, “He was always so nice, so quiet.” Don’t be the victim that the bystanders are shocked about.

Just because someone is reserved in life does not mean they are reserved in bed, and the reverse is true as well.

If someone is cocky about their sexual prowess and conquests, they are likely to not know what they’re doing in the bedroom.

Someone that is talented in bed has no need to brag of it; leave that for the children and the novices.

You can really never tell something so personal about a person, unless that person’s identity is rooted in their sexual identity. Some people just love showing off their business.

Those people love to openly talk about their debauchery in order to shock people and make themselves feel good.

However, most people are not like that (thankfully). After all, sex should be something that is between you and your man.

If a guy dresses in a way that can only be described as “slutty,” you cannot dismiss him as such just by appearance alone, as much as you may like to.

People are defined by their actions, and really shouldn’t ever be defined by their sexual activities or the way they dress. You are not your sexual identity or orientation.

If your best friend is into BDSM, that’s their private business, and you know what? More power to them for knowing what they like. Some people are far too shy to admit what they want in bed, even to their boyfriend.

The real question is, why do you care?

What business is it of yours to know the dark details about someone you have no intention of interacting with?

And if you do intend on having sex with that person, isn’t it more fun to discover these things as they occur?