“How much sex is too much sex?”

The Gay Perspective

Are you in a relationship, or are you painting the night?

If you are in a loving relationship, have sex as often as you two can stand. Anytime the moment hits, take it.

If both of you have raging hormones, there is no need to cage them. However, nothing can be more exhilarating than building tension by holding off for a little while.  When you finally release, do it like bunny rabbits.

As long as you and your man are into it, bone down as many times as you possibly can.

When you are not in a relationship, this is when you have to really ask yourself how much is too much.

Guys, we’ve all been there. The relationship with the man of your dreams falls apart, and you find yourself lonely, sad, horny and desperate for human connection.

All of us have had break-up-benders. There is a time when you have to rein yourself in. If you start treating guys as an outlet you want to plug into, there is only so much of that that is healthy.

If you do this for too long you will begin to devalue real human bonds and find yourself whoring out, for free, at clubs and on gay “dating” apps.

Sleeping with all of your friends is not, and should not, be an option because you might burn all of your bridges.

Conversely “stranger sex” has the added negative of exposing you to STDs.

I have at least three friends that have HIV. They regret a lot of their promiscuity, don’t end up regretting yours.

It’s harder to find love when you carry the emotional baggage that comes with being a tramp, and even more baggage that comes with an incurable, communicable disease.

Treat yourself and others with respect.

If you’re going to town on random dudes’ bodies, you belittle the importance of romance and love because you’ve chosen to put it as a secondary concern.

Tops, you shouldn’t sleep around so much that your junk hurts; bottoms, you should take it easy on occasion to preserve your body for the long haul.

Your future husband should know you by your sexual reputation.

When it comes to finding a guy you can fall in love with, the last thing most guys want to hear is how slutty you were.